45 Characteristics of an Elegant Woman of God in Christ Jesus
- Isabella Boston

- 3 days ago
- 3 min read
Updated: 4 hours ago
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Elegance is when the inside is as beautiful as the outside.
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The Elegant Woman
What is an Elegant Woman?
An elegant woman is the epitome of elegance. She has a "classy" aura around her and is refined from the inside out. This woman has the unique ability to navigate social and professional scenarios with grace and class.
In addition, she continues to find new ways to elevate herself through self-improvement and higher learning. An elegant woman is confident in her own skin and is a woman of INTEGRITY. She is rooted in the Word of God in Christ Jesus and commands respect wherever she goes! She is wise, kind, compassionate, and patient.
Simply put, an elegant woman knows that elegance is not just about how she looks or dresses; it's the whole package, inside and out. It's in her mannerisms and in how she treats other people.
Here are just 45 characteristics of the elegant woman:
She has her own style and dresses appropriately for every occasion.
Practices modesty and moderation in all aspects of life.
Does not compare herself with others.
Has good manners.
Chooses quality over quantity.
Exhibits self-confidence and self-control.
Is authentic to herself, not contrived.
She subtly uses makeup to enhance her natural beauty, not hide it.
Looks to other women for inspiration, not competition.
Has a heart of gratitude.
Does not complain, but counts all her blessings.
Avoids ungodly chatter and gossip but engages in intelligent conversation.
Is not judgmental.
Practices discretion. She does not share everything with everyone.
Minds her business and stays busy with her hands.
She is kind with her words about others.
She is not loud or obnoxious.
She stands up for what she believes in, even if she must stand alone.
Does not boast, but glorifies God in Christ Jesus.
Enjoys learning new things.
Does not speak down to children, but engages with them at an appropriate level.
Recognizes her own areas of weakness and continually works on them.
Respects other people's time and avoids being late.
Respects and helps the elderly.
Defends the weak and those who cannot speak up for themselves.
Gracefully and calmly stands up to disrespectful people, while also setting healthy boundaries.
Doesn't try to control other people.
Is comfortable with her own company and is not needy or clingy.
Doesn't always have to have the last word.
Gives to the poor.
Is independent, even when married or in a relationship. She always has her own thing going on.
Speaks eloquently and thoughtfully.
Doesn't always have to be right.
Trusts in the Lord with all her heart, and does not lean on her own understanding.
Is honest in all her dealings with others.
Raises her children to love God and to respect others.
Maintains good posture and moves gracefully.
Accepts compliments gracefully.
She is present in every conversation, giving everyone her full attention.
Doesn't take other people for granted.
Is not argumentative.
Admits when she is wrong and sincerely apologizes, taking accountability for herself.
Is patient and does everything in love.
Appreciates hard work.
Can accept constructive criticism.
Here's to all the elegant women out there: may we know them, may we be them, and may we raise them!
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Author’s Bio
Isabella Boston is a wordsmith and the creator of Bella’s Attic Studio: A multi-media writing platform and storytelling blog specializing in copywriting, marketing, and content writing.
She is well-versed in medical terminology and scientific research with a focus on the areas of neuroscience, immunology, and functional health. She is also a diarist, creative nonfiction writer, and self-published author.
Aside from being a writer, Isabella is a book lover, a language enthusiast, and, most importantly, a woman of God in Christ Jesus.
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